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Sunshine's avatar

I love the call to “re-enchant simplicity” and build a culture where “enough” is sanity, not scarcity. As an artist and citizen, I feel charged up to help imagine and model this shift—through my work, my conversations, and the small choices of everyday life.

Christine Kerr's avatar

Believe it or not, I am actually a loner. I need lots of time to myself, so having children that would require a lot of attention, was not in the cards for me. I loved teaching kids, but I could go home at night and have my alone time. It is not hard for me to be social, but it has to be on my terms, meaning having a choice. My husband, since the pandemic, has been able to work from home, but he goes into work 3 days a week just so I can have my quiet, uninterrupted time. I have been called "selfish" and "not doing God's will", and many childless women have experienced the same. My answer is always, "Should I have kids when I don't want to?" Some people actually say yes. Well, I choose to spend my time differently, to create in other ways, and contribute to society on my own terms. Selfish? Maybe.

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